My last drive out of Easthampton MA during my August visit for a family member's funeral. It was bittersweet moment. On one hand, it was not only a sad reason for visiting, but also going to many of my dad's favorite spots - and family landmarks - made me a little sad. On the other hand, I got to reunite with relatives and meet new ones. It was especially warming to reestablish my relationship with my 2nd cousin. Our paths diverged so significantly after we graduated from college - my path was more traditional (work, healthy group of friends and socializing, figuring out my future) and she sadly fell into addiction and the life that goes with that. (She's now totally clean, has a son and job she loves, and was able to be there for her mom during her final years.)