I'm sorry this looks so sad. But life is not always a peaceful path. This amazing wonderful woman is almost my friend. I talked to her on interent some years ago. I didn't know who she was. One month later,I heard on TV she had been kidnapped. I had an incredible shock. I had a shock too when I discovered how great she is. And so I decided I could not just continue my peaceful life, and decided to get involved.
...that's already almost 5 years now. She's still being kidnapped.
I she could see this, I'd tell her : remember Ingrid, how you said you didn't want to die, in your book, before you got kidnapped, and keep believing.