@Karyn Sue, how many poor moms are stuck in this situation? My son is now almost 19 (this month). I have battled this with his father, made he and dad take the computer out of his room when he got bad grade and I laid the law down with the BOTH of them. Now his grades are great, I get more respect from him, and his time is distributed better. Dad doesn’t argue with me when I get mad. Happy wife, happy life!