my aunts 85th b'day last weekend. Born and raised in the south, child 10 of 11 (yep 11 kids) birthdays were not big celebrations. But the b'day kid got to choose their b'day dessert and each and every one of those kids always chose banana pudding. So I made her a banana pudding, but having lived in California for the last 50 years or so, she has gone a little west coast and asked for Taco Salad for her b'day supper. lol