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The home that wasn't meant to be

by Stormy_CatAug 23, 2005
<P><FONT face=arial>While on vacation to a family reunion, my dad took me to his childhood home, and I snapped a quick picture. My journaling pretty much tells the story.</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Techniques: Photo changed to black and white using Adobe Photoshop. Additional pictures printed in black and white on colored cardstock. Journaling is hidden behind the main picture.</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Products used:</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Chatterbox- patterned papers - Reading Room collection</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Making Memories rub ons - Heidi and Providence fonts, black brads, and label holder.</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Heidi Swapp - ghost letters- clear, phot corners</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Offray ribbon</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Prima flower</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial>Nostalgiques decorative paper&nbsp;clip</FONT></P><P><FONT face=Arial></FONT>&nbsp;</P><P><FONT face=Arial>Journaling reads:</FONT></P><P class=MsoNormal>From the outside, it looked like any other normal house, white with blue shutters, with a garage and a yard for children to play in.</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>This house tells a story, the story of a home that wasn’t meant to be.</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>This story could be anyone’s but it’s my fathers, a history that I never really knew about until today. You see this was my dad’s childhood home, a home that wasn’t meant to be. I don’t know the whole story and I am not sure I ever will, it was a very sad time in his life, and he isn’t one to share feelings.</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>From what I know he lived in this house as a child with his parents, and 2 of his brothers. When my father was 2 his father died of a ruptured appendix. Life was tough for them, his Mom had 3 boys to raise, and was doing her best, by working double shifts at a glass manufacturing plant. It would only be a few years later that his life would be filled with tragedy again. His mother was diagnosed with stomach cancer, and it was serious. She knew she was going to die, and she made a very difficult decision. She decided that upon her passing her sons would go to live at the Milton Hershey School for Boys, which at the time was a home for orphaned boys It wasn’t long before her life would be cut short, she died when my dad was 7.He had to leave this home, and move across the state, to a strange new place. </P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>He should have grown up in that house, should have eaten dinner in that kitchen, and should have played with his siblings in that back yard.</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>My father almost never speaks of his childhood; I think it is just too painful for him. I would have never known about this house, if we weren’t up visiting with our extended family. We had a family reunion to go to. Maybe it was just a sense of family, or his knowledge that I have been scrapbooking, but he drove me to the house and showed it to me. We paused briefly, took a picture, and then drove off. Silently I sat in the truck, thinking not only how hard his life has been, but truly how hard it was for him to show me this house. </P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;</P><P class=MsoNormal>&nbsp;It is someone else’s house now, and for my dad it is only a memory. For me it is a part of my history, and I am glad he was able to share part of it with me.</P><P>&nbsp;</P>

Products Used

This project uses products from Making Memories, Chatterbox

Comments

koala1966
koala19669/8/05
This is a beautiful layout, and you've written such a touching tribute, even though the story is so sad.
Panda
Panda8/26/05
This is awesome, Heather. I love the journalling.
neboyle
neboyle8/25/05
This is such a wonderful memory Heather. Your journaling brought tears to my eyes.
Kathy
Kathy8/25/05
Heather, you're a wonderful storyteller! I, too, like how you colored the photos differently. Gives the page movement.
byrcon
byrcon8/24/05

You have done a superb job on this lo. Touched my heart!

Lindsay
Lindsay8/24/05
This is just beautiful Heather, what an amazing story to tell and I'm sure one that you'll family will treasure that you documented it.
WV Scrapper
What a great story - very touching.
naderamac
naderamac8/24/05

Ok you have me crying.  I am so sorry for all the heartache your father endored.  You are a beautiful daughter for doing this for him and you.

Nadera

Gypsymonkey
This should definitely come with a warning - have a box of tissues handy!  The journaling is beautiful, and it is very easy to see the emotions in it.  TFS
kellymcva
kellymcva8/24/05
Wow, what a story. My family thinks it's odd that I scrap the not so nice things but they, too, are a part of our lives. I would guess that your father was able to overcome his unfortunate childhood to become a wonderful man. The LO is beautiful - what a nice tribute.
CougFan
CougFan8/24/05
wow Heather!  great journaling -- and I like the paper you used for this!
Scrapprincess
Very touching!  I am sure your father will be proud to see what you have done with his memory.
pnutsmum
pnutsmum8/24/05
OMG what a great layout! I love your journaling!
queenie_swb
Your journalling was very special!  Great job on the entire lo.
Queen Mum
Queen Mum8/24/05
What a poignant story.

 

Suzanne_FL
Suzanne_FL8/24/05
This is really neat.  I love the different colors in the photos.  Like the way you did the title too.
serendipity

This is wonderful Heather.  As sad as the story is, it is wonderful that your father shared it with you.  This is what scrapping is all about!!!

sarah

Scrapwich
Scrapwich8/24/05
Love the paper choice.
fivalcat
fivalcat8/24/05
WOW, Heather.....this is amazing! Wonderful job with the journaling!

Carolyn
nene
nene8/24/05

WOW!

 

Charleneanne
wow what a story.  And what a great layout.  Love those papers you used.
FairyMouseMom
OMG, please pass the tissue!
Emsdancemom
Your journaling is so sad and so wonderful. You were able to tell so much of your father's story in those few lines.
Bluesky
Bluesky8/23/05
Wow. The journaling really gave me goosebumps all over my arms & very touched...I like how u done with pixs in different colors. Very nice LO. Great job, Heather.
-LATE-
-LATE-8/23/05

Your journaling is great!  Love the paper you used!

slicette
slicette8/23/05

great journaling - love the different "colored" pictures of the house.